My boundaries

Boundaries - 'My service is not for you.'

- Drug pushers

I do not condone those who push substances, and addictive vices such as alcoholism and smoking/vaping. Yes I have a drink myself (all be it rarely and at my own behest) but I do not encourage these things as any modality, they only lead to ruination, and are modes of distraction not solution.

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- Those who believe in gender liquidity and multiple genders.

Short and sweet here - I don't condone it.

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- Committed energy vampires

I do not give my time to those hell-bent on being negative, without resolutions they are willing to take on, to change the elements that make them feel that way. There are those among us that have nothing to offer but complaints and thereafter compliance to the things they were complaining about. If you are not solving it, don't complain about it.

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- Those who don’t practice the advice gained

There are those who believe that things magically happen, just for being present for beneficial ideas, I make lists of things I'm going to get done, but am not patting myself on the back just for making that list, I must make good on the things I say I'm going to do, I learn more about myself from taking things on and seeing what is; easy/difficult, fast/timely, doable/needs-more-practise-at.

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- Those who assume I have motives

You meet people in life who trade their time to make relationships with you (Personal/professional) for assumptions of who you are and what, you are tuly after. For this I do understand the points of origin for, and the suspicion that new people incur upon meeting them, It's true that you should actively listen to them and screen everyone. The element that becomes unhealthy in this is that you have an assumption of who I am and what I'm up to, without valid evidence to suggest I truly am the villain of the story. If we brood on the reality of things that happen, we are liable to create a fictionalised-reality that leads to; A) accusation and ill-feeling, and B) not being present in the relationship (which means you aren't actively in that relationship).

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- The people’s-champion wannabe

A pet peeve of mine is those who pretend to be 'for the people' those who are 'do-gooders' they shout 'green this' and 'lower-class that' but are just as happy to order everything under the sun from Amazon and drink Coca-cola all the same. They themselves don't want the services of those who want to really help people (on a 1-1 coaching, life improvement basis) they take currency from looking like they care; and that is all they want. 

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- Money is my God 

I will never promise to make you richer, or manifest money in your lives. Be wise, yes money is a mighty handy tool to have, and have enough of, but money is just a token, a common trading-chip. If you live for money you money owns you. This can be very addictive and does sever your time, that you could be spending with those who want to spend time with you, too many times have I seen high-end money makers spend that made-money on relationship councelling, therapy for dependant family members and in divorce courts. If you want nothing but money, that emptiness is yours to keep.