Values

- Family comes first

The biggest thing most people say they regret on their deathbed, is not spending more time with the people they love,

so I make it my business to make sure I'm truly embacing the company and lives of those whom want to be part of mine. Far too often, people chase the almighty ______(Insert currency here) moreso than remember why or to what benefit the money comes. When we give our most cherished the gift of neglect; they experience the gift of not knowing who they are, and feeling like they have no worth to themselves or others.

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- If I want others to change, display it for them

If I want to drive positive change in your lives, I must be sure to be pursuing that journey for myself. There is no point writing a diet book afterall, if I don't intend to follow it for myself; this hurts two things: My credibility as a service to you, and importantly, my understanding of just where the road-bumps in all things lie, where the joys and the pain-points are, and how it is to get over the hurdles in those experiences.

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- Relationships built on honesty and co-building

Good relationships are built on what we offer each-other; that mutual link that we meld, to keep a win-win feel-good partnership going. We find the greatest joys in not the consuming of things, but the giving back of things; but only to those who will keep bringing good things into our lives, as we will do for them. 

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- Boundaries / good-will paradigm

Saying no is as healthy as saying yes, when we say it to the right things at the right time. Yes to putting ourselves out there for a new relationship, and no to avoiding heartbreak in a relationship gone/going sour.

Much like the previous value, we only get to keep the worth of ourselves, when we give our good-will to those who return their good-will to us, as they in equal measure want to see us blossom and develop into the next best version of ourselves. If we dish out good exchanges to those who only consume, we find there is no exchange at all, and like a flask; the more you give the emptier you are.

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- Creativity and playfulness

Knowing what matters and that you've got it on lock, means knowing you're freed up to be playful; If I am sure that what I understand is correct, I can afford to be loose and playful, because I don't have to put on a front or get uptight about defending my intellect. Creativity introduces spontaneity and alternative means of looking at things and doing things; even if when we first consider a new way, its impractical and needs tweaking or trashing. The only people who can change the world are creative people.

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- Health-serving routine

As we make plans and aim to meet our next interim targets along the voyage, Its beneficial we put some 'Thundermentals' in place, for us to have the energy and well-being to keep on and hit it. These are routines managed by you that invite; Being watered enough, getting regular with movement, eating a well balanced diet of food, and getting the right amount of sleep.

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- Never settle small if you can live larger than this

We can all fear the bigness of losing our shackles and going our own way with the off-beat track to happiness, but in the end, the real haunting comes from knowing when its too late; that you could have had it so much better than how you have it in that present moment.